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Read the one that sounds like you

There is no quiz here and nothing to fill out. Below are four sentences. One of them is probably closer to true for you than the other three. Follow that one and do not worry about whether it was the correct choice — they meet up.

  1. “I am worn out from trying to be good, and I do not know what else to try.” Path 01 · When the rules feel like a cage · 4 weeks
  2. “I keep going back to the same thing, no matter how many times I mean it.” Path 02 · Same thing, again · 4 weeks
  3. “I have been in church for years and I still do not know if it is mine.” Path 03 · When you're not sure it ever took · 4 weeks
  4. “I do not know how to stay honest about what is true without becoming cruel.” Path 04 · When the culture asks you to look away · 3 weeks

None of them?

Then write to me and say it in your own words. That is not a fallback option — it is often the more honest place to start.

Write to Troy

All of them?

Then take Path 01 and stop deliberating. They overlap by design; you will end up in the others soon enough.

Take Path 01